I wasn’t sure how long it would take for the more venomous aspects of rabid gender feminism to exert a direct, tangible effect on men and their individual life choices (especially regarding their sexuality). However, I have the feeling a ‘boiling point’ has now been reached. As Physics teaches us every action causes an appropriate reaction. And now, after literally 4 decades of hatred towards men, of doublestandards, hypocrity, sexism, misandry and bigotry most aspects of western mens’ lifes have become profoundly poisoned and problematic. In effect, Men in their entirety have been labeled “oppressors” while women have been systematically victimised.
And this generalised, sexist stigmatisation of men manifests itself nowhere more profoundly than in the institution of marriage. So warped and biased have family courts become that at this sad point in time women have literally *all* the rights whereas men have *all* the responsibilities. In divorce proceedings women are overwhelmingly awarded child custody, regardless of individual suitability as parent. In many cases, women have divorced men simply out of boredom, malice or spite and in the process men have been forced out of their homes by their petty, neurotic honeybuns who seized it all: assets, children, house…you name it she took it.
As might not be all that surprising men have been traumatised and devastated by all this, torn out of their old lifes, identities and certainties they were in many cases even denied reasonable visitation rights to their own children and in effect financially bled white (due to having to support their ex-wives). To the fact, it would appear a sufficient enough amount of horrorstories have circulated in the past decade(s) to ensure that recently a new trend has been gathering increasing momentum (in the US, UK and Western Europe).
Essentially, western men are starting to go on marriage strike. In increasing numbers they are simply opting out. They know there is a significant chance their bride will take them to the cleaners at some point. They are aware that if *she* files for divorce at any time *he* for all intent and purpose becomes *her* indentured servant. Thus seeing modern “marriage” as the anti-male scam that it is they’re increasingly electing to remain single, or to form noncommital relationships with women (with or without cohabitation). Thus, classical marriage is dying out fast. And I find this deeply ironic because – gender feminists’ abominable claims to the contrary – the institution of marriage is a concept that is deeply appealing to women as a vehicle of controlling men (women have *in all times* been the net recipient of marital wealth transfers).
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a western woman your wife
Moreover, not only are western men not marrying western women they are also increasingly pursuing their romantic interests in other countries of the world (with other women). In a nutshell, the product ‘western woman’ is increasingly pricing itself out of the global market. Western women are seen as too high maintenance, too self-centered and stressful, oftentimes spiteful and vindictive as well as whoefully lacking in femininity and generally not worth the trouble (exceptions prove the rule). And they compare particularily badly to women of Asia, South America, and Russia. It’s simply a question of elegance, dignity, femininity, warmheartedness and grace. And badly shellshocked men are rapidly learning that not every woman is neccessarily a fiendish ‘dragon’, that there are still sweet gems on this here planet in comparison to which sour grapes taste, uhm well, surprisingly sour.
In conclusion I would say we are facing an entire new dimension of intergender alienation. Maybe the point of no return has now been passed. Maybe we are damaged beyond repair. Maybe both sexes are irrevocably launched on altgoether different trajectories. Regardless, western women have cause to feel alarmed. If they don’t wake up and start liberating themselves from the culturmarxist ideology that is gender feminism, if they don’t paradigm shift, give western men a break and change the way they treat them I believe they will find it increasingly difficult to find men willing to risk marriage and longterm commitment. They’ll also find to their discomfort that it is very difficult to convince males they are ‘oppressing’ women, if all the men are doing is fleeing the hell away from them.
All women of the West face a conscious choice. They can continue with the misguided and manhating ideology that is gender feminism and continue to push men away until an entirely dead state of hysterical ‘gender apartheid’ exists and men will bail en masse…or they can emancipate themselves from emancipation. That is my personal hope. And a start would be for women (and their male poodles) to cease blindly and unreflectedly believing in feminism like it was some religion and start using their intellect to question and discuss with an open mind the theories and merits (or lack thereof) of this whimsical ideology.
I say all this because I am convinced Gender-Stalinists like Germaine Greer and Simone de Beauvoir have kidnapped women, and twisted and perverted them to fit their own nefarious agenda. They label themselves as ‘women’s rights activists’ yet seek to destroy femininity itself – one woman at a time. They are trying transform women – by compulsive force – into vulgar imitations of the crasser kind of man. It’s ‘Doublethink’. It’s 1984. Claim to pursue one goal while in reality working towards the exact opposite. At the same time, as men and women are *not* identical (even if they are equal) this enterprise is inherently doomed to failure. Hence feminism with its socially constructed gender assumption is both fatally flawed intellectually as well as deeply disruptive wherever it gains traction. And its protagonists are *not* trying to create an equal society but rather pursue a ‘female supremacist’ femi-nazistic ambition. They are *no more* on the side of women than they are on that of men.
Hark my words, as integral part of the great cultural-marxist infection Second Wave – Feminism (post 1968) is dangerous, totalitarian hogwash. It has undermined and corroded *every* single country it has gained hold of. And as long as it persists the sexes will just go on growing ever further apart. As for us, we can continue down this slippery slope towards suizidal cultural genocide (no more procreation) or we can attempt to start digging ourselves out of our grand cesspit. In which case the only way forward is backwards.
For me, personally, it will be fascinating to see if Western women will see through this delusion. I’m not saying I’m optimistic. But I am keeping my fingers crossed…
P.s. : Finally, most esteemed ladies, I invite you to dwell on the fact that in this world everything comes with a price. Life might seem like one big party now but will you be smilling when the bill comes, I wonder? And if you end up alone and childless as a bitter old hag (post 50) with only cats to give you company please bear in mind that it was feminism and ultimately your own unreasonable sense of entitlement that made it impossible for you (and men) to form meaningful, lasting relationships.
For further reading on the ‘Marriage Strike’: